Friday, June 29, 2007

Farewell My Content Team

Today was the last day at my team that I cherish. As always the team members was up to their pranks and wanted me to do a farewell dance. I humoured them, and the outcome is as below. I apologise if i make any of u sick. It was all done for the sake of good fun.....

What a Farwell - View 1

What a Farwell - View 2

Friday, June 08, 2007

Taking Care of Yourself

A chat with Dr.Devi Shetty, Narayana Hrudayalaya (Heart Specialist) Bangalore was arranged.
The transcript of the Questions & Answers is given below. Useful for everyone.

Qn: What are the thumb rules for a layman to take care of his heart ?

Ans:
1. Diet - Less of carbohydrate, more of protein, less oil
2. Exercise - Half an hour's walk, at least five days a week; avoid lifts and avoid sitting for a longtime
3. Quit smoking
4. Control weight
5. Control blood pressure and sugar

Qn: Is eating non-veg food (fish) good for the heart?

Ans: No

Qn: It's still a grave shock to hear that some apparently healthy person
gets a cardiac arrest. How do we understand it in perspective?

Ans: This is called silent attack; that is why we recommend everyone past the age of 30 to undergo routine health checkups.

Qn: Are heart diseases hereditary?

Ans: Yes

Qn: What are the ways in which the heart is stressed? What practices do you suggest to de-stress?

Ans: Change your attitude towards life. Do not look for perfection in everything in life.

Qn: Is walking better than jogging or is more intensive exercise required to keep a healthy heart?

Ans: Walking is better than jogging since jogging leads to early fatigue and injury to joints .

Qn: Can people with low blood pressure suffer heart diseases?

Ans: Extremely rare

Qn: Does cholesterol accumulates right from an early age
(I'm currently only 22) or do you have to worry about it only after you are above 30 years of age?

Ans: Cholesterol accumulates from childhood.

Qn: How do irregular eating habits affect the heart ?

Ans: You tend to eat junk food when the habits are irregular and your body's enzyme release for digestion gets confused.

Qn: How can I control cholesterol content without using medicines?

Ans: Control diet, walk and eat walnut.

Qn: Can yoga prevent heart ailments?

Ans: Yoga helps.

Qn: Which is the best and worst food for the heart?

Ans: Fruits and vegetables are the best and the worst is oil.

Qn: Which oil is better - groundnut, sunflower, olive?

Ans: All oils are bad .

Qn: What is the routine checkup one should go through? Is there any specific test?

Ans: Routine blood test to ensure sugar, cholesterol is ok. Check BP, Treadmill test after an echo.

Qn: What are the first aid steps to be taken on a heart attack?

Ans: Help the person into a sleeping position , place an aspirin tablet under the tongue with a sorbitrate tablet if available, and rush him to a coronary care unit since the maximum casualty takes place within the first hour.

Qn: How do you differentiate between pain caused by a heart attack and that caused due to gastric trouble?

Ans: Extremely difficult without ECG.

Qn: What is the main cause of a steep increase in heart problems amongst youngsters? I see people of about 30-40 yrs of age having heart attacks and serious heart problems.

Ans: Increased awareness has increased incidents. Also, edentary lifestyles, smoking, junk food, lack of exercise in a country where people are genetically three times more vulnerable for heart attacks than Europeans and Americans.

Qn: Is it possible for a person to have BP outside the normal range of 120/80 and yet be perfectly healthy?

Ans: Yes.

Qn: Marriages within close relatives can lead to heart problems for the child. Is it true?

Ans : Yes, co-sanguinity leads to congenital abnormalities and you may not have a software engineer as a child.

Qn: Many of us have an irregular daily routine and many a times we have to stay late nights in office. Does this affect our heart ? What precautions would you recommend?

Ans : When you are young, nature protects you against all these irregularities. However, as you grow older, respect the biological clock.

Qn: Will taking anti-hypertensive drugs cause some other complications (short / long term)?

Ans : Yes, most drugs have some side effects. However, modern anti-hypertensive drugs are extremely safe.

Qn: Will consuming more coffee/tea lead to heart attacks?

Ans : No.

Qn: Are asthma patients more prone to heart disease?

Ans : No.

Qn: How would you define junk food?

Ans : Fried food like Kentucky , McDonalds , samosas, and even masala dosas.

Qn: You mentioned that Indians are three times more vulnerable. What is the reason for this, as Europeans and Americans also eat a lot of junk food?

Ans: Every race is vulnerable to some disease and unfortunately, Indians are vulnerable for the most expensive disease.

Qn: Does consuming bananas help reduce hypertension?

Ans : No.

Qn: Can a person help himself during a heart attack (Because we see a lot of forwarded emails on this)?

Ans : Yes. Lie down comfortably and put an aspirin tablet of any description under the tongue and ask someone to take you to the nearest coronary care unit without any delay and do not wait for the ambulance since most of the time, the ambulance does not turn up.

Qn: Do, in any way, low white blood cells and low hemoglobin count lead to heart problems?

Ans : No. But it is ideal to have normal hemoglobin level to increase your exercise capacity.

Qn: Sometimes, due to the hectic schedule we are not able to exercise. So, does walking while doing daily chores at home or climbing the stairs in the house, work as a substitute for exercise?

Ans : Certainly. Avoid sitting continuously for more than half an hour and even the act of getting out of the chair and going to another chair and sitting helps a lot.

Qn: Is there a relation between heart problems and blood sugar?

Ans: Yes. A strong relationship since diabetics are more vulnerable to heart attacks than non-diabetics.

Qn: What are the things one needs to take care of after a heart operation?

Ans : Diet, exercise, drugs on time , Control cholesterol, BP, weight.

Qn: Are people working on night shifts more vulnerable to heart disease when compared to day shift workers?

Ans : No.

Qn: What are the modern anti-hypertensive drugs?

Ans : There are hundreds of drugs and your doctor will chose the right combination for your problem, but my suggestion is to avoid the drugs and go for natural ways of controlling blood pressure by walk, diet to
reduce weight and changing attitudes towards lifestyles.

Qn: Does dispirin or similar headache pills increase the risk of heart attacks?

Ans : No.

Qn: Why is the rate of heart attacks more in men than in women?

Ans : Nature protects women till the age of 45.

Qn: How can one keep the heart in a good condition?

Ans : Eat a healthy diet, avoid junk food, exercise everyday, do not smoke and, go for health checkup s if you are past the age of 30 ( once in six months recommended) ...

Shivaji: The Boss

Friday, June 01, 2007

Before & After Marriage

Before the marriage:
He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.

She: Do you want me to leave?
He: NO! Dont even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: NO! Why you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Yes!
She: Will you hit me?
He: No way! I'm not such kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.

Now after the marriage
(You can read it from below to top !!!! )

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Lonesome Soldiers Heart

Its been a long time since i wrote any poem. This is something dark and deep.

It feels like a tired journey,
I’ve forgotten neither the beginning
nor where I am heading
Souls I’ve meet and I’ve united with…

What used to be sparks of light
Now a flicker of hope stands
All is lost to greed & lust
A soldier stands in the eclipse of the sun

The soldier takes on his journey
Like a wilted flower
The soldier waits to die
Or some little act of kindness

The soldier carries
Till his path meets the angel or death itself
Alone in this word he roams…
A lonesome soldier heart

Friday, May 25, 2007

Something to Ponder

Take a minutes break and read this, think about it:

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused.
Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.
The train came, and you were just beside the track interchange.
You could make the train change its course to the disused track and saved most of the kids.

However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed.

Or would you rather let the train go its way?
Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make........ .....






How did you decide?





What was your decision?






Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.
You might think the same way, I guess.

Exactly,
I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally.
But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?
Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday.
In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority is, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority is.
The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined.
And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The friend who forwarded me the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track
should have known very well that track was still in use and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens.
If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track!

Moreover, that track was not in use probably was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake!
And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

"Remember that what's right isn't always popular...
and what's popular isn't always right."
Everybody makes mistakes;
that's why they put erasers on pencils


~Originator unknown. I just forward~

Difference Between Girl & Woman

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them.
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( I.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.

Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.

Grown women know that that was just one man. Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.

Diary: Serendah Falls

The picture above was taken in Serendah waterfalls on the 19th of May. My entire department headed by Khalil as our guide took an hour journey to get to the place. I must say it was an exciting adventure there as we had to hike 1km before reaching the falls. When we reached there we set up camp. We had canvas as mats and we all chipped in for food. There was plenty of food that we brought. nasi lemak, fried mee hoon, sandwiches and fried stuff like nuggets and chicken balls.

At the first spot there was a nature made Jacuzzi, which was excellent for the body. The guys got adventures and we started to find better spots down the fill. We found and excellent spot where the water was deep enough for one to do cannon balls. We also found another spot where the waterfalls were so strong that if u hit your back it gave u a good massage. All in all it was an exciting trip…

Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Diary: Rambling Mind


I'm tired.... not at life but at work. I find myself surrounded by negative thoughts. I just want to quit work, period. I wish I had enough financial security to leave my job and do nothing. I always saw my life as a battle from one problem to another. I've never gotten anything easy and I had to fight for what I have. Lately I've been tired of fighting. What am I fighting for u ask. At work I fight to protect my department people from being abused. I've got 15 staff its a hard job. I fight to ensure my brothers are emotionally balanced. Somebody needs to put Alex in check, being so old he so sensitive, Andrew in the other hand is a brick wall you cant really tell what’s he thinking or feeling. I think its the age gap all I know about him is he only loves food too much. On my personal life I'm tired of my current lifestyle, I need some kind off change.. good god please do intervene.

At the office, it’s quite tensed as we need to hit or last quarters target. The office environment is quite tensed, everybody bouncing off his or her tension at each other. I couldn’t take anymore of it and skipped work on Friday. Lenny called me, as he wanted company to fix his car sound system, in short he was pimping out his sound system at Gombak. After doing his sound system we headed to play a couple round of pool to know who was a better player unfortunately it was a draw thus we told each other we would rematch each other soon. After pool we had dinner with Logen and Jaya near Pj State at a Chinese restaurant. So-so food but it was the company that I enjoyed. I reached home at about 12, I didn’t want to sleep so I watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S. season 10 on DVD. I've been putting that on hold. I didn’t want the illusion of the show to be over. I grew up with the show, I kind of related to the show. So I watched the entire season 10 till 4 am with couple of tears tearing down my face.

Sunday was Mothers Day and mum wanted to have Nasi Kandar, the only place I knew was Pelita. So we had lunch at Bangsar Pelita and later on headed to TMC to get some supplies for Alex when my parents go this Thursday to Jogjakarta. I really do hope they have fun. I on the other hand am looking forward to Serendah Waterfalls this Saturday. Will take pictures of it and I'll post it at the blog when I can yeah....

Lately there has only one thing is my mind, what it is you ask? POC = Pirates of the Caribbean. It came to me one day, what would my next tattoo. I closed my eyes and it popped in my head the picture in black and white a portrait of Captain Jack Sparrow. This has gotten so bad that I’m only listening to the soundtrack of POC. Must say it makes work much more bearable……

Monday, May 07, 2007

3 Musketeer’s back again?


Last Friday I meet up with Melman and Yogi for dinner at Chillis and I must say I missed those guys. It was so like back in the day, talking trash and laughing our heads off. Melman was a lil under the weather but his humour was intact. Yogi and me had to keep a lid on his surprise birthday party on Saturday. So we pretended that we were celebrating it on Friday… just the guys. To make sure he bought our story I got a pack of condoms and chocolates. What was better was we got Chillis to sing to him Happy Birthday on his free dessert. Funny thing was they don’t check your IC they just accept it at face value.

After dinner we headed to Thai club to see Nick; we did a lil drinking, This part of the night was really my cup of tea. But luckily I was busy sms-ing an old friend throughout the night. I reached home at 4 in the morning. I only could get 4 hours sleep, as I had to get up at 8 in the morning to meet a client.

My meeting with the client had turned sour and I was such in a foul mood. My boss was not that happy with what had happen. I just wanted to punch something, it was around lunch hour and I wanted to be with someone to lash my feelings out. I called Yogi and he told me to come over, we would pick Nick and then have lunch at some place. But my bad luck kind of ran and there seemed to be a massive jam throughout Cheras. We sat in the car for 2 hours thus lunch was off the agenda… I thought that would be fine since I’ll be in TGIF gobbling my food. Hmmmm a good steak would be nice.

We were supposed to be at TGIF by 8 but due to some ‘technical’ problems we had to push the meeting an hour behind. We had to be there 7 – 7.30. Yoges and I rushed to TGIF. We were of course the 1st to arrive. Melman was again shocked to see us all there celebrating his birthday. Food was pre-ordered so I didn’t get to have my steak. We had pasta, triple play, fajitas, some fried chicken and a nice ice-cream cake to was it all down.
After dinner we headed to Matrix to play some pool…

On Sunday… I didn’t get up till 5 in the evening nothing much happened besides a long talk with Alex. Glad to know he is doing fine. Mum and Dad will be going abroad next week to see him.

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Diary: Promises

Along my life I’ve made some promises with my friends. In high school the bunch of us promised we would go to London, I went alone. Then sometime later I made a pact with my friend to do a tattoo, I went alone. I’m starting to think that all the promises I made mean nothing. But its still means something to me that’s why I still do it irregardless the other party holds his promise or not, all to its own….

I was supposed to go visit my brother this year but I think I’m postponing that to next year. Fingers crossed, next year I get to go to Bali to conquer another fear (bungee jumping) then go see my brother in Jogakarta. Hope Mother Nature won’t be so pissed off when I plan to visit Indonesia. Mum and Dad are planning to go visit Alex in May, just before Aunt Ire comes down. Alex has been acting funny so mum wants to see what’s happening to the boy.

I’ll be away on a long leave, nope not going anywhere. I just need to clear my leave so I’m on leave on the 26 April – 2nd May. The only thing I’m looking forward in this is to catch Spider-Man 3 and TMNT. So if want to meet up give a call… I’m glad to hang out with ya.

Concerts Coming Soon

Hey Ladies….

Hey Fellas…..


My Intel tell tells me the following artist is coming to Malaysia

Gwen Stefani
I’m definitely going for this. You know how cool this is going to be right….

Linkin Park
Without a question I’m going for this. I still this was the best concert I ever went.

My Chemical Romance
Not sure about this one but I bet Cavell be in front screaming the words to the song ;)

Justin Timberlake (Not Confirmed)
Do I need to say more… You imagine the ladies that would be there….

I Love Visit Malaysia 2007. Why can’t it be like this every year?

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Inner thoughts

We all have on going problems that wish could just leave us once and for all. Could be finance could be personal. Whatever it is, if you remove that problem out of the equation you believe you would be much happier or even a better person…. These are things I could do to make me much happier in my current life

RM 6000
The Gym
A Love Life

Have you given thought to the things that you could do to make you life much happy in a realistic vision? Think about it

Last week on the 11th of April, Annie gave birth to another Aries Men. So now lil Michael has a lil brother to play or beat up with. The kid is cute isn’t he? Annie and Gerald gave Michael to choose the babies name. So for a 4 year old kid his naming choices is quite limited. Some of the choices were Bob The Builder, Winnie The Pooh, Martin Mystery, B1 or B2 (from Banana’s in Pajamas) but I think they have settled for Christopher Robin. Anyways that’s another name I got to add in my X’mas list. And makes me feel much older… sigh.

I’m actually quite happy to have another nephew to play with. These are actually the most adorable time of their life till they turn out to be brats…. hehehehe. Anyway looks like I’ll have to share my birthday with this chappy now.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Kanye West Concert

Last Sunday at Easter Night, I sang jesus Walks. yes I'm surprised that he played that song too. The concert was actually was a so so one. I still think Linkin Park concert is the best. Anyway heard Justin would be coming to Malaysia. Thats another concert I must go. Anyway Kanye concert was fun too, I went wit Shari, Lester, Prashant, Rizal and his fiancee. Cool....
Last Saturday the content team organized a paintball game. It was the 1st for most of us. We re really excited. We were told it would hurt and it did so. Luckily I was smart enough two clothes. By the way I'm the midle guy in the pic... the fatness should give it away. I got loads to show but i cant cause not really know how to do it. So pass me ur email and i'll send it to you over photo share.

My Tattoo


Whats this ugly thing you ask? Well its a picture of a dragon.
Why dragon? Always found the mystic dragon fasinating. The meaning of it. The History behind it
Did it hurt? Like hell it did
How does it feel? Well I feel proud to conquere another fear. Now i'm in the 'pantang' stage. So no seafood for about 2 weeks. Its also the itch stage so no scratching. They've given me medication for 2 weeks for it to heal. Next year hopefully will be bungy jumping. Hope I have the balls for that.
What did mum say? Surprisingly mum was very cool about it. She was more worried how I'm taking care of it.
Will I do another 1? Most definately. Planning to do a Man Utd crest on my chest. Lets see how it goes 1st

Thursday, April 05, 2007



Big Ups to my team to have stayed to launch Celcom Channel X. I am so out of touch working late hours and waking up early the next day. I and afew of the team members feel so zombied out.

I cant wait for friday when I'm leave to recover my sleep.